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Is Fear forcing you to give up? Then call on your Heart’s Courage to continue!

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This blog post will be disliked by many. Because so many people have a fear of fear.

To one degree or another, almost everyone lives in fear whether consciously or unconsciously. Mostly because they are unable to take care of themselves in their inner and their outside world. 

Understanding fear is the elixir in curing it.

Trembling and shaking physically, emotionally, and psychologically, at the prospect of another challenging day, month, or year from fear of their finances, relationships, work, and health. Many, feel fear is so mysteriously varied to try and understand it. Without realising that understanding is the elixir in curing it.

Don’t surrender to your fear!

Fearing their strength isn’t adequate or that their wisdom won’t be able to meet their predicament. Many people embark on a desperate search, looking for a solution to whatever they fear in the wrong and quite often dark places. At the same time asking the wrong questions, which only ever yields the wrong answers. Forcing them to surrender to whatever they are fearing, which only perpetuates their fears.

As you are reading this, take a moment to stop and ask yourself: “Can you feel any fear running through you?”Regardless of its size, are you tired of suppressing your fear with the wrong medicinal tools, be they recreational or over the counter ones?

Put an end to your fears.

If your answer is yes, then contact me on 07842 435921 or email  info@irwinedgehilltraining.co.uk I’ll help you put an end to your fears so you can live heart-fully, in your everyday life. 

And whilst you are here, have a read of my previous blogs, which I believe will resonate with you. You will find them at https://irwinedgehilltraining.com/blog/

3 comments

  1. Hi Irwin

    Right now I am riddled with fear and anxiety. Colin left me again (for the 3rd time)

    We finally sold our apartment and moved up to Coventry. The plan was to stay with my sister (Violet) until we could find a place we wanted to buy. And I would hopefully find a job and start working again

    Colin seemed to be on board with this.

    However, my sister and I had not heard from my youngest sister (Heather), so and a couple of days we went to her house to check she was OK.

    When we finally got into the property, I found her dead on the floor. She had only been dead for a day. She suffered a heart attack.

    When we finally got home that night, after waking for the coroner, police etc. We told Colin what had happened. He was so angry at me for being out so long (even though I had called him from my car earlier to explain what had happened), he blew up at me screaming at us that “had we took more care of her, she wouldn’t be dead” Colin barely knew Heather. She was our youngest sister.

    Needless to say, Violet ordered him to get out the next day. His son came and picked him up the next day and I have not heard from him since. That was nearly 5 months ago. His son will not give me an address or phone number where I can contact him. Except to tell me he has moved into a house around the corner with his sons mum, who is Colin’s ex!!!

    Colin was diagnosed with dementia a couple of years ago and I was his carer during that time. So I am extremely concerned for his health and wellbeing. It was during this time he started leaving me, and I managed to get him back the last two times.

    I am unable to contact him.

    I am heartbroken, and crying everyday. I feel like he hates me so much and will never want anything to do with me again. Violet is very supportive, as are the rest of my family, and has told me I can stay as long as I need to.

    I am so bereft, I can’t see a future for myself, I have applied for loads of jobs but with no luck. I think my age is going against me now. My job coach thinks I shouldn’t be looking for a job right now, because I am too distressed. I will never be able to afford another house on my own and I can’t imagine living without him. I love him so much and miss him terribly, not to mention riddled with fear. I fear I will never get over him and move on.

    I am sorry to lay this on you, but you touched a nerve with your post. Hope all is well with you.

    Best wishes

    Sharron xx

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